Gregory Dechant: Where do I fit?
Since
coming home, I don’t know where I belong.
My friends have all moved on in their lives and my new friends are
thousands of kilometers away. My social
support network is very important to me so reintegration has been extremely
difficult. I am waiting for classes to
start, renegotiating the terms of my employment and catching up on all of my
doctors’ appointments, course advisors etc etc etc. The time has been both
crazy busy and super slow! I am a person that needs structure and currently
none exists! But
I don’t want this to all sound negative. My friends and I are reconnecting
(some faster than others). Work begins again soon, and classes start back up
with me entering my 4th and final year at Cap. I have maintained
contact with my new friends and we are already making plans to meet again
somewhere in the world! I got to visit over 20 cities in Europe, and those are
just the ones I stayed overnight in, there were so many more than I was able to
make short stops at or day trips to!
I
say that I have had issues figuring out where I fit back in Vancouver, but
thanks to social media my closest friends and I were never out of touch for
long and we had no problem (mostly no problems) reconnecting at home. I
wouldn’t trade the experience for anything (except maybe the resulting debt,
anyone want to take care of that for me? Please? No seriously PLEASE?) and I
highly recommend that everyone at least tries. The full semester experience is
worth the cost (please someone pay my debt) and while reintegration has been
difficult for me here (but that is me I have “issues”) what I learned about
myself over there is invaluable.
Gregory Dechant is a business student at Capilano University. Greg studied abroad at SRH Hochschule Berlin in Germany.
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